I was reading around and felt compelled to write about this subject so LETS GO.
In the world of love, and winning a girls heart. There is always the battle of Nice guy vs Bad guy. In most cases 95% of the time the nice girl will go for the bad guy. But 95% of the time it usually doenst work out, and almost 95% of the time the Nice guy will finally win after a long time of waiting and struggling. But what goes through women’s minds when their face between the choice. All women want to be loved, its a given fact. They want their knight in shining armor to sweep them off their feet and take them away into a sunset.
The girls usually go for a bad guy for the many reasons. One the bad guy doenst care and so she can go wild through him. So its her way of living wild through a bad boy so to speak. Secondly bad buys aren’t afraid of the word No. As mentioned before girls want to be loved, and those bad guys have no shame on hitting on women even if they are rejected because they have no shame. The bad boy deep down could care less, hes looking to have a good time and hopefully get some action in the long run.
The nice guy is usually the down to earth friend you can depend on. While most girls claim that want all these qualities in a man: trust, love, honester, etc. which most cases the nice guys posses, then why is that nice guys usually lose against the bad boy.
Well its simple really. We are afraid of the word no. Nice guys even myself are always afraid of rejection, we hesitant and take are sweet time with things. Example: your with the girl on a day out having fun, While the nice guy is being nice, and in the inside his heart is racing faster then the speed of light, and hes deciding on weather or not he should make a move or not, the bad boy in the scenario would already have done so.
We nice guys tend to blame women for being blind because we usually get “FRIEND ZONED” but in reality we are partly to blame for that. Because most of us tend to be a little shy around the girl we like we tend to be hesitant. while the bad boy doenst give a rats ass and goes all in. So we need to step our game up.
We can beat the battle against these so called bad boys, without having to do it their way. We can do it with style, class, and grace. How? well, its simple every lady wants to be swept off her feet. The next time you nice guys find a girl you really care for dont get “friend zoned” by taking your sweet time. Women want love and they want it now. Sweep her off her feet like in the movies. Tell her how much you care for her, kiss and and make her forget where shes at because she was so caught of guard by it. Dont be shy around others. Make her know that you want her that include in front of friends and such. Be that knight in shining armor and show her you are the man for her.
We all want to have are lady and ride into a sunset with them in our arms. Well its time we do it now rather than later. Dont give these bad guys chances to take your women away from you. Sweep her off her feet do it now and win her heart. So with that in mind let us make the Nice guys win over the bad guys for a change. While bad guys usually win the fight and the nice guys win the war. Lets make this a clean sweep by having the nice guys win all the way.
In reality however us nice guys are actually bad guys. What do I mean. Well the girls usually for for bad boys because their wild. But in reality most bad guys are really not bad, in fact its usually all just a front and illusion. In reality the real bad boys are in the nice guys. Yes you heard right. The wild action you ladies all seek, is all the nice guys you know so well, you just haven’t seen it.
SO nice guys dont be afraid to let your wild side out once in a while for the lady to show her the animal in you. But do it class because we our gentlemen.